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All About Relationships
How to Choose Your Life Partner?
You have reached the age where you can start thinking seriously on your wedding day. You would like a steady partner, whom which you could spend the rest of your life with. You have dates some and been involved in a couple of serious relationships, but now you feel ready for the "real thing". So how do you do it? How do you find the right one? First of all, you need to be clear with yourself on what kind of person you are after. Try to imagine him/her and the qualities he/she should have. It should involve character as well . . . keep reading
Sound Seduction Advice for Dating and Romance Success
Background Seduction is a subtle tool used with the ultimate goal in mind of attracting and having sex with a chosen partner. Seduction is a form of flirting, but is more ambitious in it's means, fulfilling our desire for sex and companionship. Having sex may be the ultimate goal, but for some, the thrill of seduction lies in the pursuit rather than the actual conquest. The excitement of wanting and chasing someone can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. For others, just knowing that another person's sexual attention is focused . . . keep reading
What Is Love And The Love Equation
What is Love? This question has bothered me for a long time. After listening to many perspectives and examining Love from several angles, the thought came to my mind that we have over-complicated Love and need easier to understand models. I decided to put forward two equations, one defining the relationship between Love and Fear and the other about Love itself. The first equation is: Love = 1 / Fear This inverse relationship implies the more Fear you have within you, the less Love you will have and the less Fear you have the . . . keep reading
Relationship Conflict: The 3 Cs of Resolving Conflict
"And they lived happily ever after... ...... ." Yeah right. Perhaps I'm a little bit jaded, since I work all day with couples in conflict. On the other hand, conflict comes to even the healthiest of marriages. It's just that we seem so unprepared for how to handle conflict. We know in our heads that "happily ever after" is true only in stories and fairly tales, yet in our hearts we long for it to be true. In the best of all possible worlds, we would be well prepared for handling conflict before we get married. My experience in my . . . keep reading
Relationship Advice: Voices of Experience on the Radio
A few years back I was on a radio talk show out of New Orleans called "The Andre' Show" discussing "What Makes a Marriage Successful". The producers had seen my column in the New Orleans paper and decided to create a talk show topic from the column. So now I'll create a column from the talk show. Are you with me so far? OK. The format of the show was for the host and I to talk about what makes a successful marriage and to take calls from the listening audience. We received dozens of calls from listeners on what had made their . . . keep reading
Dumped? Get Set for a New Life
Welcome to Dumpsville. Population - you! You've been dumped for a new and improved model. However, you have decided, "to remain friends." What good can come from being friends with someone who doesn't want you? We have all heard the lies. "It's not you, it's me" or "My life is too complicated right now." Here is the skinny, my friends: your ex is trying to cover up their feelings of guilt. When dumped, you have four choices: Buy self-help books. Tell your ex in many ways that you love them and want them in your life. Write . . . keep reading
7 Things You Must Know About Women
Most men find women mysterious and confusing. You find us difficult to figure out. It isn't your fault. It's not like anyone gave you a guide book on women in highschool to study. Here are some of the mysteries about women revealed: 1) Before you even get to the door most women wonder if you are Mister Right. 2) She is just as anxious as you are about your first date. 3) Women like your undivided attention. Pay attention to what she has to say and she will be more interested in hearing about you. Also keep your eyes on her. Eyeing . . . keep reading
Five Easy Steps to Creating Your Dream Relationship
Millions of singles across the world are looking to create relationship bliss. It takes time. It requires energy. It mandates desire. A lot of people have all that. What they don't have is a valid and reliable Roadmap to Relationship Success. Whether they're accessing Yahoo Maps or their personal database-if the information used to create a Roadmap is faulty, they'll end up lost. If you're single and feeling lost, here are five easy steps that you can take toward creating your dream relationship. Step One: Define your belief system . . . keep reading
Eight Ways to be a Better Friend
Being a good friend is a skill we can learn and improve upon. Here, eight ways to be a better friend. Number One: Like yourself The first step in having a good relationship with a friend is to have a good relationship with yourself. When we genuinely like ourselves, we become more attractive to other people. We have more to offer others because we are not constantly focused on our own image and reputation. We become better friends because we don't cling. We are secure enough to spend time with a friend because we want to, not . . . keep reading
Is There Romance In The Zodiac?
Many people know that the zodiac is a circle in the sky which is charged with twelve distinct energy fields. Astrologers have called these energies "signs." But few people understand that each one of us is a miniature zodiac filled with these dynamic energies. These unique energies, which each of one us has inherited from birth, is either in harmony or in discord with the energies of other people. This celestial chemistry is quite obvious in the realm of romance. You may have heard yourself say this about another person: "We . . . keep reading
10 Tips For A Happy Relationship
It's not working. Your relationship with your partner is not the same. What can you do? These days more than 50% of all marriages fail for some reason. Usually the marriages are because of too much criticism over money or the children. Often when people break off their relationship, something is missing. The "spark" has gone out of the partnership/commitment. People who have been married a long time made a decision to love their partner and work at their commitment. Perhaps these 10 tips will help you spruce up . . . keep reading
Is Your Negative Thinking Scaring Off Your Soul Mates?
Francine Bonnecelli* swore off relationships the day her husband of nine years left her for a twenty-something barmaid in San Francisco. Even though this was her third marriage, she felt three was the charm and, after all, he showed all the qualities in a soul mate and a marriage partner that no one had ever shown her. After this traumatic experience, she closed off her heart to future relationships, giving up on the theory that you can find THE ONE who meets all your goals and expectations. Jennifer Quigley*, fresh out of college . . . keep reading
Relationships: Last a Lifetime
Stepping into a new position brought along a few surprises. People I grew up with wandered into my office, smiling a bit in surprise, and content to greet an old friend. I struggled with a few meetings, laughed through others, and cried after still more. My life was dancing before my very eyes, and I struggled with the reality of facing all those years. I knew when I focused on the mass of files stacked on every bare inch of my desk that I was in for a few surprises. The surprises came with familiar faces and well-known names . . . keep reading
Successful on the Outside, Lonely on the Inside: Our Hidden Epidemic
I say "Loneliness. Isolation. Invisibility." You ask "Eleanor Rigby?" I say "No. Your co-worker. The person next to you in the grocery store. The new CEO they just hired. The person who just repaired your washing machine. It's all around you." It is one of the least recognized and most wide-spread social epidemics of our time. I've been hearing this issue come up among clients for several years now. It's time we started to talk about this publicly. Here's what I am hearing: "I feel like my life purpose is to just make . . . keep reading
Little Help Finding Love Online
Visit the dating sites. If finding love online is what you're after then the most important thing you can do is to get out there and network with fellow singles. Visit dating sites and picture personals sites otherwise finding love online simply isn't going to happen for you. A quick search on the Internet will find you plenty of sites like this, in fact if you wait around long enough without a pop up blocker on and you won't even need to search. Finding love online couldn't be easier, there are so many sites that are literally . . . keep reading
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Quick Tips for Writing Love Letters
* Be in a good mood when writing a love letter. Never try to write a love letter when you're in a bad mood, not only will it be more difficult to write but your bad vibes will make their way into the letter. * Write a love letter anytime. Don't wait for a special occasion to write one . . . keep reading
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